Been doing alot of thinking lately..it's really eating me deep inside. Here is an article i believe most people would be interested in cos at one point in our lives, we are into one relationship..but do they last as expected. Well, let's rub mind on this and help each other in achieving that relationship that eventually leads to a blissful marriage...the happy ending to say!
Looking back at the days when men were boys and ladies were girls, we all crave for this long lasting relationships that would eventually lead to marriage. But these days, the relationships of this calibre hardly lead to marriage.
I realise at one point in time of the relationship, there's usually a time one of the parties would feel he/she has been caged for so long and craving for that freedom. Can this be as a result of the partner's behaviour?..What is happening at that moment in their relationship that was not happening before.. Is any of them becoming jealous and feeling in secure, cos of the partner's association with opposite sex...what might have gone wrong? The Bottom Line Give each other some space and time for one another. Everyone needs it, everyone.....
The major problem of a relationship boils down to the following points:
Ownership. First off no one owns anyone in any relationship. Everyone is their own individual . It is important to remember that you are just as important as the other person in the relationship. Never feel guilty for doing something for yourself. Feel proud of yourself that you are tending to yourself the way you should and need to.
Control. Love and relationships are not about control. It is suppose to be a happy time in your life. If you want to do something for your other, than do it. But if you feel uncomfortable about it at anytime, dont do it. Its that simple. Never let anyone control you. You control yourself and only you.
Talking. Talking is the major part of a relationship. If you have no talking then you dont have a relationship.Its that simple. You should be able to be open and honest with one another. And nothing should make you feel uncomfortable. You should be able to talk freely about anything and everything at anytime.
Argueing. This is a natural part of a relationship, as long as it doesnt get out of hand then it is considered abuse, physical or mental. But if its to the point where you think it is out of control, then it is, walk away. Simple as that. Cool down then go back and start it over again. Don't give up. If you can't seem to stop being angry, sleep on it and try again the next day.
Sex. This is a very important part of being together. But it is not the most important part that is for sure. Respect your partners principle and timing about..when he/she feels it is right..Don't push it..Besides Konji no dey kill man!
And lastly. Privacy!!! Give each other some space and time for one another. Everyone needs it, everyone....
How to Create a Magical Relationship: The 3 Simple Ideas that Will Instantaneously Transform Your Love Life
The major problem of a relationship boils down to the following points:
Ownership. First off no one owns anyone in any relationship. Everyone is their own individual . It is important to remember that you are just as important as the other person in the relationship. Never feel guilty for doing something for yourself. Feel proud of yourself that you are tending to yourself the way you should and need to.
Control. Love and relationships are not about control. It is suppose to be a happy time in your life. If you want to do something for your other, than do it. But if you feel uncomfortable about it at anytime, dont do it. Its that simple. Never let anyone control you. You control yourself and only you.
Talking. Talking is the major part of a relationship. If you have no talking then you dont have a relationship.Its that simple. You should be able to be open and honest with one another. And nothing should make you feel uncomfortable. You should be able to talk freely about anything and everything at anytime.
Argueing. This is a natural part of a relationship, as long as it doesnt get out of hand then it is considered abuse, physical or mental. But if its to the point where you think it is out of control, then it is, walk away. Simple as that. Cool down then go back and start it over again. Don't give up. If you can't seem to stop being angry, sleep on it and try again the next day.
Sex. This is a very important part of being together. But it is not the most important part that is for sure. Respect your partners principle and timing about..when he/she feels it is right..Don't push it..Besides Konji no dey kill man!
And lastly. Privacy!!! Give each other some space and time for one another. Everyone needs it, everyone....
How to Create a Magical Relationship: The 3 Simple Ideas that Will Instantaneously Transform Your Love Life
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