Wednesday, August 3, 2011

Things Women look out for in men





Most women look for very similar things when looking for a man. The type of man she wants in regards to interests, career, goals, and past may vary, but there are a lot of qualities that every woman wants in a man.
It also depends on what type of relationship the woman is looking for in her life. Women looking for a partner just for sex will want something completely different out of a man then a woman looking for a potential husband. So depending on what kind of relationship you want and she wants, there are some qualities to let shine through.
GOOD LOOKS: This is usually the first thing most women if not all, look out for in men. Women are only human they are going to be attracted to men who are good looking. The thing to remember, though, that a guy who is good looking to one woman may not be to another. So even if he is not Brad Pitt or Denzel Washington, he can only b attractive in his own unique way.

CONFIDENCE: Women don’t want arrogant men, but they need to know that men are confident about themselves and they have high self-esteem. Having low self-esteem and no confidence in a man’s abilities is a huge turn-off and it’s just way too much for the average woman to handle in a relationship.

SENSE OF HUMOR: Women realize that looks will eventually fade, but a sense of humor does not. If a man can make a woman laugh always, she can be likely putty in his hands. Although sense of humor is something women look for in men, the humor has to be the right kind. No dirty jokes, please!

INTELLIGENCE: A woman wants a man that she can carry on a conversation with. If a man is dumber than a box of rocks, she’s going to get pretty bored and frustrated really quick. He doesn’t have to be a genius but should be able to carry on an intelligent conversation on something besides sports.

RESPECTFULNESS:  For a woman to date and actually have a relationship with a man, she needs to be shown respect. This means that the man treats her like an equal. No jokes about women being less intelligent or able to do something. Show her respect and she will show it back to him.

TRUSTWORTHY: If a woman can’t trust a man, then forget about her wanting a relationship with him. Trust is such an important quality in a man and can make or break a relationship. But this shouldn’t be a quality to be looked out for in men only as men also want women that are trustworthy.

HONESTY: Honesty falls in the same kind of category as trustworthiness. Women need to know that their man is being honest to them. They don’t mind the occasional white lies to save them from hurt feelings, such as when you tell them they don’t look like they’ve gained any weight even though they may have gained 10kg. It’s the bigger lies, like who you are going with, talking to, spending money on and so on that they need the truth about.

PERSONALITY: Most women need to see some actual personality from men before they would want to date them. Women know that some men are shy, but if a man is a cold fish or he is so boring that she wants to bite her hand off, the man is not going to last long with them. A man should simply let his personality shine through no matter how off the wall it may be.

PASSION AND DRIVE: All women want men who have passion and drive in their lives both professionally and personally. If a man has no aspirations or dreams, then why would a woman even want to date him? He’s going nowhere in life and he will only left behind in her dust.

KNIGHT IN SHINING ARMOUR: This means that if someone else makes a woman mad or picks on a woman, her man should defend her honor. The man doesn’t have to be physical to defend her (unless the situation actually calls for it), but she needs to know that he’s always on her side and keeping her safe. Sometimes, this is as simple as listening to her problems and just telling her he agrees and that she was right.

Cupid's love relationship that never last!






Been doing alot of thinking lately..it's really eating me deep inside. Here is an article i believe most people would be interested in cos at one point in our lives, we are into one relationship..but do they last as expected. Well, let's rub mind on this and help each other in achieving that relationship that eventually leads to a blissful marriage...the happy ending to say!

Looking back at the days when men were boys and ladies were girls, we all crave for this long lasting relationships that would eventually lead to marriage. But these days, the relationships of this calibre hardly lead to marriage.
I realise at one point in time of the relationship, there's usually a time one of the parties would feel he/she has been caged for so long and craving for that freedom. Can this be as a result of the partner's behaviour?..What is happening at that moment in their relationship that was not happening before.. Is any of them becoming jealous and feeling in secure, cos of the partner's association with opposite sex...what might have gone wrong?    The Bottom Line Give each other some space and time for one another. Everyone needs it, everyone..... 
The major problem of a relationship boils down to the following points:
Ownership
First off no one owns anyone in any relationship. Everyone is their own individual . It is important to remember that you are just as important as the other person in the relationship. Never feel guilty for doing something for yourself. Feel proud of yourself that you are tending to yourself the way you should and need to.

Control. Love and relationships are not about control. It is suppose to be a happy time in your life. If you want to do something for your other, than do it. But if you feel uncomfortable about it at anytime, dont do it. Its that simple. Never let anyone control you. You control yourself and only you.

Talking. Talking is the major part of a relationship. If you have no talking then you dont have a relationship.Its that simple. You should be able to be open and honest with one another. And nothing should make you feel uncomfortable. You should be able to talk freely about anything and everything at anytime.

Argueing. This is a natural part of a relationship, as long as it doesnt get out of hand then it is considered abuse, physical or mental. But if its to the point where you think it is out of control, then it is, walk away. Simple as that. Cool down then go back and start it over again. Don't give up. If you can't seem to stop being angry, sleep on it and try again the next day.

Sex. This is a very important part of being together. But it is not the most important part that is for sure. Respect your partners principle and timing about..when he/she feels it is right..Don't push it..Besides Konji no dey kill man!

And lastly. Privacy!!! Give each other some space and time for one another. Everyone needs it, everyone....





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Saturday, May 21, 2011

Daily Game May 21 - Blow Things Up! 2

Blow evil things away using well placed bombs.

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Friday, May 20, 2011

Daily Game May 20 - Sieger: Level Pack

Play through fan created levels of the popular Sieger game.

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Thursday, May 19, 2011

Daily Game May 19 - City Siege 2:Resort Siege

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Wednesday, May 18, 2011

Daily Game May 18 - Bridge Tactics 2

Ambush the enemy by placing dynamite on the bridge and blowing it up at the right time.

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Tuesday, May 17, 2011

Daily Game May 17 - Zombie Truck

Flee the zombie infestation as two brothers with a truck and lots of ammo.

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